Dare to Be Different - Part 1

Dare to be different. It's a running thought for most of our brides. They don't want what their mothers had. Or their best friend. Or their favorite older cousin who got married when they were 10. Pinterest is fun, but … well, it is starting to look an awful lot alike in Pinterest World. What began as a way to expand brides' minds and show them amazing things that can be done has become just another place to become overwhelmed or, honestly, to see what you see everywhere else. Dare to be different.

Your wedding is a once in a lifetime event. It's the biggest celebration you will likely ever have. Weddings are tremendously emotional and full of love. I always encourage my clients to express their individual personalities and their "couple style". Everyone knows you can do that with colors, menu items, special guests (like your pet!) and with your attire — But, what are some other ways you can reclaim your wedding?

1) Celebrations Some families throw a welcome reception (for out of town guests) and farewell brunch. In some cultures it's traditional to have the men and women gather for separate parties. Dare to be different and throw something similar before the rehearsal dinner. Maybe a small rehearsal dinner and rent out a karaoke bar for the out- of- towners.

2) Attire Attire is the easiest way to express your style and personality. Fashion is ever-changing and your attire allows you to really express yourself. Choose a cut that suits you best. Find a bridal salon or dress maker that will work with your style and body to create something unique.

Wearing white is a fairly new tradition, afterall. Prior to Queen Victoria in the mid 1800s, white was not the go-to color. So, feel free to wear your best color! And don't forget to accessorize in a way that feels natural to you. Are you a hat wearer? Get a reception hat. Perhaps a traditional dress and veil for the ceremony and a brightly colored number for the reception. Change your shoes. Remove a layer. Do what suits you!

3) Timing We love unusual timing for events. Why not cut the cake first? Or have a private last dance? Why not have a private, early-morning ceremony and a brunch reception with your guests? Or, if you're a night owl, what about a late wedding ceremony, reception and a wild after party? Both options allow you spend your entire wedding day with your spouse and really flexes that "Dare to Be Different' attitude.